I wrote about all the excuses that tend to come up when it comes to sex in marriage. However, there are times when sex has just flat out become completely BORING. I think one of the things that makes having an affair so appealing is the fact that you’re able to go to a hotel do something DIFFERENT. We found a new idea that is worth talking about.
I have begged Del to take me to a hotel to get away from everyone and everything. However, now I don’t want to go to a standard hotel. I want to go to one of Executive Fantasy Adult Hotels in Miami instead.
This would be a new adventure for us and a great perfect weekend getaway. I personally would be nervous walking into a room like this. I have never taken a pole dancing class, but I certainly would have fun trying to a pole dance for Del. You already know we have a love of taking showers together. I do have a fascination with being able to watch what we’re doing through mirrors. I LOVE cuddling up and taking a nice relaxing bath with Del. This place just sounds like a couple’s heaven.
I feel every marriage needs to take on the sense of getting to know each other again every couple of years. You need to ‘act like total strangers’ and meet up somewhere together. I consider it the reliving the feeling of the cat and mouse game. After you’ve been married for a while, you forget the high that comes from being “chased” by someone else. When you play this game with your spouse, you get to remember that feeling. However, you are also reminded why your spouse is the perfect mate for you. I feel every spouse needs to know they can have that feeling with their spouse. I am a firm believer it can be done by going out of your way to work together to create some extra memories together every chance you get.
Would you enjoy going to this place with your spouse?
I admit I would enjoy trying this but am not sure I could get hubby to agree to go
I’m glad to hear that you’re interested in doing this with your husband too.
This seems interesting and it is always nice to change things up and be spontaneous. 🙂
Keeping things spontaneous is a wonderful thing and it helps keep the spice alive in a marriage.